I have been confused for years as to how to go about make-up. I hate being misleading and dishonest and that's why I don't usually wear make up. How do guys feel about make up HONESTLY? How should I? I don't like the feeling of 'you see me one way, and in the morning, you'll see me a whole different way...' but if it's something that's really accepted, then I wouldn't mind getting made up. Please shed some light on this topic! Thanks.
How do guys feel about makeup? I haven't done a survey, but common sense tells me that it depends on the guy, the setting, and what he's looking for. Most guys probably don't have strong opinions about makeup per se, but have strong opinions about what they find attractive, which varies somewhat from person to person. Lets take a looksie.
Lets start with Exhibit A. There are the guys who drive Beemers, go to clubs, and hit on girls in order to find temporary mating partners and brag about them later. You can tell from their little Dubya lips how serious they are about themselves and their stupid hats. In a bar, you're almost certainly going to need some make up to catch their attention in a positive way. Not wearing makeup will brand you an untouchable social pariah.
Moving on, we have Exhibit B, a smelly hippie from Northern California who's looking to invade/connect with your soul. (I don't really know where this particular smelly hippie is from, but I assume it's somewhere dirty.) He hangs out at the park with his djembe and mingles with people named after constellations. He says the word "energy" much too much. For him, less makeup = more natural = more like me = more accessible.
In between these dorks is Exhibit C, a guy who frequents the bars but is as thoughtful -- and perhaps charmingly clueless -- as you are. He likes a little makeup but not too much, and would still be interested in talking to you if you were made down (is that a word?) assuming you had a nice, playful, welcoming energy disposition.
Exhibit C. Almost normal.
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