Please include relevant info and history (but make it brief) and check 1 or 2 of the following areas:
[ ] personal development
[ ] career
[ ] finding some fucking happiness
[ ] why no one wants to date me
[ ] ending a shitty chapter in my life
[ ] why am I such a bastard/bitch
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Brief history-- I am finishing college, it seems like all the good friends i meet end up moving away, and its hard to make new friends that are lasting relationships. I try to be friendly to people, but I feel like I do things that others think are weird, anti-social, or that make me seem bitchy or unfriendly. At this point I don't know if I'm just overly self-conscious or if I really need to work on major personality things
so, directly related to that are the two "problem areas": 1. Why no one wants to date me, 2. Finding some freaking happiness
thanks. : )
In recent years, I've had 3 of the closest people pass away, and I dont think i'll ever recover. My long term relationship also ended. I feel regret in things I should of done, or I feel angry/sad for those who treated them so badly when they were around. I saw the world differently...I lost trust in most people and for those I did trust, I valued them more than ever. I find myself analyzing people and seeking their actual intentions. I used to freely make friends with anyone, just as long as I get a kick out of it. I think I used to be more selfish in the things I wanted to do or whatever benefited me (sounds bad, but I just made friends with whoever and never really thought about it before). I used to be indifferent about people with characteristics of being kind and considerate but now I find myself trying hard to build friendships with them. Those characteristics shine much more brightly to me now then they used to before. I guess I live everyday as if it was my last day and I would never want to take my good friends for granted. And I never want to surround myself around selfish bastards! What should I improve on?
[ check ] personal development
[ check ] finding some fucking happiness
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